Cat Sims made a Mental Load List... it was 47 pages long.
Ask any woman who find themselves cohabiting with anyone else and they’ll be able to describe to you, in intimate detail, the various negative effects thathas on them. Up until my generation , the mental load has been the world’s best kept secret. Now though, we are doing all we can to lift the lid on what it’s really like to live with the constant mental ticker tape of jobs that range from the eternally mundane to the potentially life saving.’ – a term I reject wholeheartedly and passionately.
Fortunately, we made it to couples therapy and it saved our marriage but I learned a lot in the process. I learned that he wasn’t willingly ignoring the mental load and leaving it all to me because I was the woman. He simply didn’t understand that it existed and our therapist encouraged us to identify why this is. I knew my husband wasn’t a dick, so why couldn’t he step up in this area?
This, I realised, doesn’t make the men in our life bad people. If they don’t know, we can’t blame them for not getting it, right? That’s like getting mad at our kids because they don’t just ‘know’ the twelve times table. They need to be shown so that going forward they can impress dinner party guests by knowing that 12 x 7 is 84 .
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