When it comes to relationships, some people prefer to live out temporary fantasies rather than pursue real-life, long-term goals. Here's a better approach.
It is important to be aware of how past relationships may impact present ones.A real relationship is often different from how you imagined, but that can make it more satisfying.Frequently, my patients want to form new relationships unburdened by patterns, memories, and fears imported from earlier connections. They want to be fully present in a relationship and resist versions of themselves warped by characters from a discarded past.
She’d make assumptions as if they were someone she had known; she’d act on those assumptions; the guy would become bewildered, annoyed, and decide that the whole thing just wasn’t worth it. By the time she came to see me, she knew what was going on—that she was in thrall to her old relationships—but she couldn’t help herself.. She’d come to the city three years earlier, assuming that she’d make a new start.
What interested me, however, was why. even when she understood the motivations that inevitably led her to a fall, she still allowed them to take hold of her. Why would she give in to stirrings that she knew, from past relationships, did her no good? Perhaps, I think, because she always had. It had become a pattern. She couldn’t tell whether a relationship was based on real, growing affection or just on some high that she got, before it all crashed and burned.
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