A younger sibling made executor of mother's estate wonders if it's possible to require estranged older siblings to only communicate via lawyer after mom's death.
A younger sibling estranged from older siblings was made executor of their mother's estate and wants to avoid communicating. But the executor wonders if it's possible to only communicate with each other via a lawyer after mom's death.I have a complicated relationship with my siblings. I’m the youngest of four. Now, in my late 40s, I don’t speak to any of my siblings or their kids. It’s like I’m an only child and they don’t exist.
I stepped away from that toxic crap many years ago. I don’t have social media, but between us four, we do have mutual friends and aunts and uncles and cousins. And they still talk trash and make up lies about me like they saw me last week when I have not seen them in years. I don’t know anything about them or my nieces or nephews because I don’t care, and I also don’t bring them up in conversation.
My mother has made me executor of her estate when she passes, which is sure to cause an issue because last year she changed it from my oldest sister to me, and I don’t think she told her. I already told my mother since I see her several times a week, vacation with her and help her often that when she passes, I won’t be going to her funeral, and she is very OK with that.
I am asking if it is possible that she have the lawyer put in writing upon her death that my siblings only contact the lawyer about questions pertaining to the will and not me? Is there such a thing? I just don’t want to have to associate with that when I am grieving. -You will have to consult a lawyer to see if such a legal protection is even an option in your state, but I would advise you to address your relationship with your siblings directly rather than roping your mother into it.
It sounds like you’ve made your peace with the estrangement, and you clearly have a wonderful relationship with your mother, but demanding a guarantee from her from beyond the grave that you will never have to interact with your siblings would be a painful request for any parent to receive. After your mother’s death, if you don’t wish to discuss legal matters with your siblings, you can communicate with them through a lawyer.
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