A simple acronym of love can help you find ways to connect with your loved ones with dementia.
Published: Feb. 14, 2024 at 5:02 PM AKSTFAIRBANKS, Alaska - Valentine’s Day is for spending with our loved ones. Sometimes, when these loved ones are struggling with dementia, this can present additional struggles.Look back together. Maybe go through old photos, and talk about who is pictured, where the photo was taken, and what the occasion was. Bring up shared moments that you can both enjoy together.
Open yourself up to connecting in different ways. If dementia prevents your loved one from doing things together with you that you used to, try something such as simply listening to music, watching a familiar movie, sharing a meal or enjoying a quiet walk. Giving flowers is the perfect, time-honored Valentines tradition for this occasion. Also, don’t forget non-verbal cues such as smiles and eye contact.
Verbalize your love. Even if they can no longer grasp the full meaning of a Valentines card, your feelings are conveyed, and the act can raise your own spirits. And lastly, express yourself in the person’s love language. Physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service are all types of love languages. Knowing what your loved one responds to best can help you best connect.