Dear Amy: I’m from a small family (I have one brother), and while growing up, my two cousins (my aunt’s sons) were like brothers to me — we always spent vacations, holidays and family celebrations together.
Fast-forward 30 years and we aren’t as close as we used to be — for various reasons.I see my parents and my brother often, but I haven’t seen my cousins since the pandemic began because we have differing opinions on vaccinations and social-distancing .My spouse and I are quite fond of our future son-in-law and his family.
Should I call them directly and address the issues outright? Should I quietly not invite them? Honestly, I love my cousins, but I don’t like them or their world views, and I don’t know what to do.Dear Stressed: If you aren’t comfortable being in proximity to these men for health or cultural reasons, then — follow your instincts.
Fortunately for you, this decision should be made by the marrying couple, so you can kick this in their direction. If the cousins don’t make the list and you are asked why, you can tell them the truth: “Your racist views knocked you off of the invite list.”Listen now and subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify | Stitcher | RSS Feed | Omny Studio Dear Amy: I have been best friends with “Penny” for over 60 years. Last year we had an argument over the phone regarding COVID-19 vaccines.I was concerned for her health and told her that she was wrong not to get vaccinated.
You seem to be against the idea of reconciling — and on the fence about being in touch at all — but I don’t really see a downside to reaching out.
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