Advice: Her husband felt her father’s wedding toast wasn't heartfelt, and declared “his days of … bonding with my dad were over.”
There were cultural differences that led to my dad's editing choices. My sister is her husband's biggest advocate and made it clear he and his family need special treatment and praise.
Please, please recognize how many red flags are shooting out of his response to your dad’s toast, and how vulnerable you are for your impulse to appease and mediate.By your husband’s response, I don’t mean the hurt feelings. That’s fine, normal, understandable. And unfortunate. Two toasts nearly back-to-back, and one is deliberately less welcoming? Of course that’s going to sting. In that respect I feel for your husband.he reacted.
“__” Version 4: Not saying anything, and recognizing he’s not your dad’s biggest fan, either [shrug]. But I fear that was mostly running an emotional errand for your husband, to do the work for him to make him feel better. And part of the reason I think that is this: “My sister … made it clear he and his family need special treatment and praise.” Fire pilots carry less water. And your pleaser-dad complied.
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